Senate Report: 40 Percent Of Children Born Out Of Wedlock In U.S.

A report “Love, Marriage, and the Baby Carriage: The Rise in Unwed Childbearing,” from Senator Mike Lee’s Social Capital Project disentangles some of the factors of how we got to approximately 40 percent of pregnancies occurring outside of marriage in the U.S.

The report data shows that in the early 1960s, 43 percent of unwed pregnancies precipitated a hasty, “shotgun” marriage. Today, only 9 percent of unwed pregnancies result in such quick marital arrangements. Young couples no longer see the necessity of getting married because a child is coming.

Unmarried people as a group had previously limited their sexual activity, concerned about both unwanted pregnancy and social stigma, the report found. But they, too, began having sex earlier and more frequently as they gained access to hormonal contraception and as changing attitudes made premarital sexual relations more acceptable.

“Further societal changes made unmarried childbearing, not just sex, more acceptable, such that half of births from nonmarital pregnancies today are intended,” VerBruggen observed [deputy managing editor of National Review].

The authors of the report do not think that abortion is a significant contributor to these trends, he explained. The abortion rate increased during the 1970s but dropped in the following decades and remains by all measures lower today than when Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973. CP

The report concludes:

But to date, we have tended to spend additional wealth to pursue individual and personal priorities. That has eroded our associational life—including the stability of our families, especially among disadvantaged families who have enjoyed the fruits of rising affluence less than others have. Continuing to make the same choices with our ever-higher purchasing power threatens to diminish the quality of life for rich and poor alike. Senate Report

It’s all about me!

A shift in mindset about sex has reorganized adult priorities while having grievous consequences on children, another scholar pointed out.

“People today generally believe that unlimited sex is an entitlement and that children have only the rights adults choose to give them. This is called ‘reproductive justice,’ because it neutralizes the impact of children on education and career, and supports ‘equality’ between men and women,” said Jennifer Roback Morse, president of the Ruth Institute, in an interview Tuesday with The Christian Post.

“But if you believe that kids need and are entitled to a relationship with both their own parents, the moral calculus changes considerably.”

Sex outside of marriage puts the prospective children at risk of experiencing at least one form of injustice, Morse went on to say. They are either killed via abortion; put at risk of a weak or nonexistent relationship with one parent, often the father; or are placed for adoption, separating the child from their biological parents, at least for the duration of their childhood, she explained.   CP

Poverty, Dropouts, Pregnancy, Suicide: What The Numbers Say About Fatherless Children And Teenagers

The absence of a father has a huge impact on a child.  The impact is heartbreaking.  The necessity for children and teens to have both parents that are engaged in raising, nurturing,  and teaching their children is important.

Fatherlessness has a great impact on children and teenagers, and poses one of the the most serious problems today in education.

This was cited by best-selling author Alan Blankstein to NPR.

He [Blankstein] has spent most of his life advocating for kids who struggle in school. He wrote Failure is Not an Option, a guide to creating high-performing schools for all students.

The question was put to Blankestien, “So, just how many kids are fatherless?”

 24.7 million kids in the U.S. don’t live with a biological father.

A U.S. Department of Education study found 39 percent of students, first through 12th grade, are fatherless.


Children are four-times more likely to be poor if the father is not around. And we know that poverty is heavily associated with academic success. [Fatherless kids] are also twice as likely to drop out.

Dropouts & Incarceration

Dropping out of school, growing up fatherless and incarceration appear to be connected. One study you cite from 2012 titled, “The Vital Importance of Paternal Presence in Children’s Lives,” shows that seven out of 10 high school dropouts are fatherless.

Does fatherlessness affect boys differently than girls?

The research that I’ve seen says that girls are twice as likely to suffer from obesitywithout the father present. They’re four-times more likely to get pregnant as teenagers. Boys are more likely to act out, which is why we’re more aware [of how they’re affected], but if a young girl is imploding, we don’ t see it.

Read full article at NPR


Failure Is Not an Option: 6 Principles That Advance Student Achievement in Highly Effective Schools 3rd Edition
by Alan M. Blankstein is available at Amazon.

White House Report: Boys Need Fathers In Their Lives

dad-childA White House report has a key finding, that boys success in life is linked to having a father or father figure in their lives.

Around 4 million poor children grow up in high-poverty neighborhoods, 9 out of 10 of whom are children of color, and disadvantage certainly affects these children. However, evidence suggests that a disadvantaged upbringing—and in particular the increased likelihood of having an absent father figure— can disproportionately harm boys’ later outcomes. Adolescent boys, regardless of household income, are more likely to engage in delinquent behavior if there has been no father figure in their lives (including both residential and non-residential biological fathers and stepfathers), while adolescent girls’ behavior is largely independent of the presence of a father figure.

Similarly, boys from single-mother-headed households are 25 percentage points more likely to be suspended in the eighth grade than girls from these households, whereas the gap in two-parent households is only 10 percentage points. Boys in these families are also less likely to attend college.  The large-scale randomized experiment Moving to Opportunity 8 showed that for young boys, moving from high-poverty public housing to lower poverty communities did not improve behavioral or health outcomes as much as it did for girls. Researchers have argued that this gender difference in outcomes may be partly due to increased distance from father figures and other differences in social experiences that may contribute to gender differences in the impacts of these moves.

Pew: Just 46% Of Children Live In A ‘Traditional’ Family

familysilhouetteAs the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live.  Pope John Paul II

The American family has altered.


The Pew Research Center study found, “Less than half (46%) of U.S. children younger than 18 years of age are living in a home with two married heterosexual parents in their first marriage. This is a marked change from 1960, when 73% of children fit this description, and 1980, when 61% did, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of recently-released American Community Survey (ACS) and Decennial Census data.”

  • 4 percent are living with two cohabiting parents.
  • 5 percent of children are not living with either parent. In most of these cases, they are living with a grandparent.
  • 6 percent of all children are living with a stepparent.
  • 15 percent of children are living with two parents who are in a remarriage.
  • 34 percent of children today are living with an unmarried parent — up from just 9 percent in 1960.

Children born outside of marriage now stands at 41%, up from just 5% in 1960.

Study after study has confirmed that children from nuclear families fare better in education, emotional development, and spiritual areas. Family structure and parent involvement, especially fathers, has a massive impact on children.

The damage done and being done to the nuclear family is immense.  A nation can survive wars, disasters, a host of cataclysms, but the decline of the traditional family is a disaster that has a massive impact on a nation.

Online:  Pew: Less than half of U.S. kids today live in a ‘traditional’ family


Lost In Poverty

povertyusA detrimental effect of the destruction of the family unit is poverty.  In the United States in 2009, the poverty rate for children in married families was 11%. By contrast, the poverty rate for children in female-headed families was 44%. The changes in family composition between these two poverty rates is striking.

The number of single-parent families has increased. Higher and higher numbers of children live in single-parent families in which they are four times as likely to live in poverty and all that goes with it.  Dr. Sara McLanahan, in Psychology Today, research has lead to disturbing conclusions  for children in single-parent families. “Children from single-parent families school drop-out rate is twice as high as rate for children in two-parent families. Children in one-parent families have lower grade point averages and poorer school attendance records. As adults, they are less likely to graduate from college and more likely to become single parents themselves.”

Escape from poverty?

Thomas Sowell, an econmist at Stanford University, addresses the issue of escaping poverty in his article Poor Too Often Led The Wrong Way To Escape Poverty

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Involved Fathers Are A Key To College Success

5880468163_87be44cfcb_q_dad-childFamily structure and parent involvement, especially fathers, has a massive impact on children and their education success.   A college diploma is an important component in achieving economic success in today’s economy. An article by W. Bradford Wilcox of the University of Virginia looks at what is a key to college success.

I find that young adults who as teens had involved fathers are significantly more likely to graduate from college, and that young adults from more privileged backgrounds are especially likely to have had an involved father in their lives as teens.

Bradford Wilcox looked at the kinds of family structures most likely to facilitate father involvement; adolescents are much more likely to report that they have a father who is involved or highly involved if their biological parents are married. An involved father from all education levels is more common for adolescents living in an intact, married family.

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